How to become the love you want to attract.
My personal experience showed me that whatever I attract already lived inside of me. If I do not like what i attract, I have to find the part of me that corresponds to it or that complements it. For example, if someone I dated in the past did not make ends meet, neither did I in the lifestyle that my talent could have provided. If someone did not want to change, some parts of me did not either. These are similarities that attract each other. As well, some parts of us can attract complementary parts of others. When I dated a man who had narcissistic behaviors, the part of me that attracted him was my softness, my kindness which is good to have, but I did not have the proper boundaries in place and I accepted lots more than was appropriate and excused awful behaviors because I understood where they were coming from and thought I could help! So on top of being way too nice, I was also arrogant. I have changed those parts of me with help from friends and a therapist. I attract way different prospects nowadays.
In this 52 video serie, Geri Schipper and I will explore each week a different topic which helped us grow into the person we want to meet. And if we do not meet them, we will be a much better partner for ourselves as the first person to love and treat well is ourself.
Each week we will talk about a different kind of topic; One will be a state of being, such as honesty and gratitude. On the second week we will talk about a tool and behavior, as support system and abstinence. The 3rd week we will discuss a sense of self such as self-knowledge and on the fourth, a character defect in the way of the state of being discussed in the beginning of the month such as fears, which opposes honesty and gratitude.
Your input is welcome! If a month has 5 weeks, a topic suggested from our audience will be discussed so please send in your request and watch our very first video which was on the state of honesty and gratitude, in our opinion the first step to any good relationship with ourselves and others.
In between relationships – How to become the love you wantIn this 52 video serie, Geri Schipper and Helene Nicole will explore each week a different topic which helps them grow into the person they hope to meet. Week 1 of each month they will cover a state of being such as this week, honesty and gratitude. Week 2 of each month they will cover a tool and behavior, for example on the 2nd week support system and abstinence. On the 3rd week of the month they will discuss a sense of self such as self-knowledge and on the 4th week a character defect in the way of a loving relationship such as fear which will be discussed on the 4th video. If a month has 5 weeks, a topic suggested from our audience will be discussed.
Posted by Avotreportee on Monday, January 14, 2019